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Women Are Born With Pain Built In
It’s a strange thing, how pain becomes a background hum in the life of a woman, so quiet and constant that we don’t always notice it...
Maddalena Mizzoni
May 284 min read
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"Carpe Diem" is Bullshit
I’ve always thought "seize the day" was bullshit. It’s one of those things movies and authors have been selling us for decades, making us...
Maddalena Mizzoni
May 215 min read
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Things That Anchored Us
I spent most of my life believing that independence was the final proof of adulthood. A refusal to need. A refusal to be beholden. I...
Maddalena Mizzoni
Apr 293 min read
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They Hate When You Serve Angry Feminist
People love to put you in a box. Mine was obvious from early on. When I was eight, I learned the word “feminism” and immediately decided...
Maddalena Mizzoni
Apr 233 min read
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The Places I Had Planned for Us to Go
One month from today I will leave Reims—and France. In a few months London will take over, six months there, then six in Brussels. After...
Maddalena Mizzoni
Apr 183 min read
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In Exchange for Attention
I’ve always believed in an invisible system behind things. Not fate, not karma—something subtler. A kind of emotional economy. You give...
Maddalena Mizzoni
Mar 303 min read
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Oh, To Be Alive
It hit me in the most ordinary moment: sitting on the metro, headphones in, pretending I wasn’t there. That’s what we do, right? We board...
Maddalena Mizzoni
Mar 244 min read
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Telefonami tra Vent’Anni
Ci sono persone che non perdi davvero, le lasci in sospeso. Come quei libri che inizi e poi abbandoni a metà, non perché non ti...
Maddalena Mizzoni
Mar 122 min read
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Not Like Anyone Else
I’ve been that person—the one who smirks when someone names Harry Potter as their favorite book or rolls their eyes when someone says...
Maddalena Mizzoni
Mar 103 min read
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Isn't Everything We Do in Life a Way To Be Loved A Little More?
At some point, you learn to shape yourself into whatever will make you easiest to love. Not consciously—there’s no defining moment, no...
Maddalena Mizzoni
Mar 54 min read
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Quella Notte Non È Mai Stata Mia
Non ho mai fatto la maturità. Non ho mai vissuto la tensione elettrica della prima prova, l’ansia che si scioglie nelle risate nervose...
Maddalena Mizzoni
Feb 193 min read
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Someday This Pain Will Be Useful To You
Sometimes I wonder if the most profound kind of pain is the one you’ve never met. That thought wouldn’t leave me the other night as I...
Maddalena Mizzoni
Feb 164 min read
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I Met My Younger Self for a Coffee Today
She’s already there when I walk in, sitting at a small table by the window, fingers wrapped around a cup she hasn’t touched yet. She...
Maddalena Mizzoni
Feb 103 min read
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When Love Isn’t Enough
I was 13 when I watched Robin and Barney let go of each other. But wasn’t just a breakup. It was a moment that cracked open a corner of...
Maddalena Mizzoni
Feb 53 min read
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Slow Down, You Crazy Child
I’m always rushing. Through everything. Exams, dinners, conversations, entire seasons of my life. I feel it—a certain push to be done, to...
Maddalena Mizzoni
Feb 12 min read
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My Declaration of Independence
I always wash my dishes as soon as I finish eating. It’s one of those unspoken rules I’ve followed my whole life, not because anyone told...
Maddalena Mizzoni
Jan 273 min read
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The People We Forget to Remember
There are people in your life you don’t think much about until they’re gone. Not the ones who leave you devastated, and not the ones you...
Maddalena Mizzoni
Jan 204 min read
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No One’s Free Until Everyone Is
We like to think we’re fighting for something. That we’re standing on the right side of history, loud and clear. But if I’m being honest,...
Maddalena Mizzoni
Jan 134 min read
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Home Is the Place That Never Changes, Except You Do
The first time I came back home after moving abroad, I was met with a wall of observations I hadn’t asked for. “You’re different.” They...
Maddalena Mizzoni
Jan 44 min read
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Maybe in Another Universe I Don’t Have to Use Sarcasm to Hide My Feelings
Some people learn early that humor is a kind of camouflage. It’s not something they choose so much as something that chooses them—a way...
Maddalena Mizzoni
Dec 30, 20243 min read
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